Pinking- Penis thinking
No news here. We know guys think with their penises, leading us down the road to ruin again and again from the launch of a thousand ships to Weiner’s wiener. Here’s the thing- Weiner’s approach to penile cogitation is an object lesson- on HOW TO DO IT! In other words how to avoid sudden bachelorhood notwithstanding the waggish ways of your wiener.
What Weiner did was harmless. Lying about it was not. As is so often the case in courtrooms and careers, it’s the lie that does you in, not the act. So men who are married and being led astray by your wiener? Try virtual sex. Openly. Ideally with spousal permission. In at least some marriages, if virtual sex substitutes for actual a couple nights a week it may be a welcome respite from nightly sexual expectations from horny husbands? Or- it may be a good predicate to hot sex, you shop online but you buy at home? Whatever that saying is.
Will you get spousal permission to have virtual sex? Probably not, because no one can accept that the wiener will have its way regardless of what we say. So the alternative- if the choice is between an actual tryst or a virtual one (i.e. you are just another guy with weak will when it comes to the wiener) is the virtual one. If you get caught, own up immediately. Is this worse than jerking off with a copy of penthouse? Yes, but not all that much. Am I engaging in pinking? You bet.